Friday, May 28, 2010

Last night has been the first time this week that Jim has been home around the 5 o'clock hour in the evening due to the heat and everyone turning on their AC's and needing them fixed from sitting over the winter months. So we were talking and he has come to the realization that we will be moving and that we will be leaving his first home. The funny/ironic thing about all of this is that we are leaving the house that his Grandma Doyens lived in and moving into the house that he himself grew up in. We will be talking with the lawyer that is helping us with the home loan remod sometime today. We are going to ask him about all and any posibilities. Actually letting the house foreclose and even short sale and learning all the ins and outs and what would be the best deal for us to do at this point in time if the lender will not help us. On Tues. we got a letter in the mail stating that not only the lender but also the servicing company for our home loan is testifying against us to get us to leave the house, with that letter we know that maybe this is Gods way of helping us move into a more kid friendly home since we know that there would be no other way that we would have been able to do this on our own. So I feel like God is closing the door on Rosedale Ave. and opening the window on Roanoke Dr. . . . I think its drive. Anyway still continue to pray cause this battle is far from over. We still have one more court date on June 4th and then we have to figure out what would be the cheapest and easiest thing to do to end this long drawn out battle that should have never gotten to this point. It should not have gotten to this point due to the fact that alot of the political leaders including our beloved president stated that the banks and lenders are out to help those in finacial distress . . here we are begging for help now for 1 1/2 yrs and no one has helped us out as far as the lenders working with us. Anyway, thats just how I feel. So from now on if Jim and I have to borrow money for anything big again like an other home or a car we are going to go local no more of these big nation wide banks that are still getting those million dollar bonuses while there are people that are loosing their homes. Anyway on to something happy and better .  .
Evey yesterday graduated on to first grade. To say the least I did tear up a bit when I was reading her report card and I read what I already knew. Evey is/was able to be promoted onto first grade. She is so very happy and excited about this. She is loving this fact so much that its going to break my heart to try and tell her that she is going to have to go to a differant grade school. The good thing is that I am friends with one of her kindergarden classmates mothers so we will be in contact with them still. So that cloud does have a sliver lining. Well time to go and finish up with the laundry and start to condence things and get rid of other things so that when we do have to move it won't be so bad and hard.

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